Post by s***@gmail.comMe and my husband are 33 and 34 and have been together for 13 years. we live Texas but will be moving to orlando soon. We had our first poly experience with another couple and it was great. I only wished it lasted longer. It's so hard find like minded people. We want to make a real connection with people, not one night stands. Any advice?
It's hard to tell exactly what you mean by your first poly experience.
It might be helpful to talk about that a little more. Some of us manage
long-distance relationships. I met one of my partners right here. I
lived in the SF Bay Area and she lived in San Diego. We manages a long
distance relationship for about a year and then she moved up here with
her partners. We lived close to each other for several years, but when
her mother started needing more help, she moved back to San Diego. It's
difficult for me since I don't see her much. She doesn't seem to need as
much time close to each other as I do. However we still feel connected
and things will work out.
I wouldn't mind finding another local partner, but I don't appear to
want to work on it very much. If you're just looking for a regular hook
up (there's nothing wrong with that) there are still some dating sites
that have poly members or specifically cater to poly people. At least it
used to be I'm not really current. I'd say hang around here and
participate but there just isn't that many regulars around anymore. I
only drop in occasionally to see if there's any traffic. This used to be
a major part of my social life.
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